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February 27, 2010
Human Day
February 22, 2010
Prologue on a Saturday
Went out the other day to see the Chingay Parade near the Singapore Flyer alone since my father could not go with me that day because of work. As I was about to exit the station, an auntie, who is old enough to be my grandmother, came out of nowhere and tapped my shoulder to ask if I know where the Singapore Flyer is.
Auntie: Do you know where the Singapore Flyer is?
Me: I was actually about to go there Auntie but I really do not know how to.
Auntie: Come on, let’s just follow all these people, I think they will go that way.
Me: Are you going to watch the Chingay parade Auntie?
Auntie: No. I just want to go to the Singapore Flyer.
Me: Oh well, do you know Funan Mall? I think there’s a shuttle nearby the mall that will pick up those people who wanted to ride the Flyer. But I think it’s on the other side.
Auntie: No, no. I am not riding the flyer. I was just listening to the radio here and I heard that the DJ’s that I am listening to will go there. I like them, they are funny. (Bagets! Auntie was really listening to the radio that time because she was wearing her earphones and was pointing to it when she said that. =))
After minutes of walking and talking about my Nationality, my impression of Singapore, where we are residing and some basic stuffs to talk about…
Auntie: So where are you going? Are you going to watch the parade?
Me: I’m going to see the Chingay Parade Auntie. Don’t you want to see the parade later?
Auntie: No, I don’t like. I am just here to see my favorite DJ’s. Haha!
Me: But have you seen the parade before?
Auntie: No. I have never watched it.
Me: How come?
Auntie: You know, Auntie here is a Singaporean but does not always go out. It is my first time to go to the flyer.
Me: Why is that Auntie?
Auntie: I could only go out when my other kid and husband take me out, I don’t know where to go and you know what? Parents are always there to look out for their children. Well, Auntie here has a son, he’s 20 years old now. Two years ago, before going to National Service, there was an incident that made my son lacked one heart valve. Because of that he was not able to go to National Service then. But it had already been replaced with a mechanical one. He is already fine, has adjusted himself to it but I was looking out for him for two years now, cant go out really. It is saddening, so young, he is so young to have a condition like that. And another thing, I was trying to help an Auntie 3 months ago, she needs to be lifted so I lifted her. She was kind of heavy but I was able to lift her on my back. I was actually feeling okay that night but the next day, I could not move anymore. I was actually bedridden for 3 months.
Me: For real Auntie?! Going to the Flyer seems to be a long walk. Are you okay to walk that far now?
Auntie: The DJ’s here said that it’s just a short walk to the Flyer, I did not know that it would be this far!
Me: Are you taking some medication? Are you feeling alright?
Auntie: Yes! You know what? I had visited 5 doctors already because of this. But my current doctor advises me to go for acupuncture so I am doing it now. I am able to walk now but not that good. My doctor said I should not walk that far yet. And all of this happened because I am a very good citizen. Maybe next time, I should restrict myself from doing good things to people, no?
I know she was only kidding because she was actually laughing at the idea as if saying “Can I really do that?”, but I could not help but got struck with what she said. How many people in this world still have that sense of selflessness running in their systems? How many people would still help someone in dire need especially if they know they have the capability to do something? How many of us will still lend a hand despite knowing that they will be risking their health and, worse, their lives in the process? We are living in a world where we wanted everything to be all about us and to work in our favor; where all of our sentences start with I think, I feel, I want, I need… always I. How low of a percentage of the totality are genuine altruists? How many are still left? If I have to ask the previous questions in front of a crowd, I am curious about the number of hands that will go up afterwards. I am envisioning that it will be more than I expect. But really, I am not talking about those people who are only claiming that they will actually be there in times of need but this is about those people who will truly stay and do something, those people who can and will still walk the talk despite the huge risk. Much like that kid who had saved a total of 50 lives during the Ondoy tragedy by bringing his neighbors and friends to a higher ground which in the process took his precious and youthful life or that person who is brave enough to face a bullet to protect his country and his countrymen or that person who is more than willing to receive death threats for the name of justice and defending what is right. Do we still belong in that small percentage? All of us had been bestowed with that responsibility; we all have a responsibility to our humanity but,it is a sad fact that only a few has the heart to own to that responsibility. And because of the scarcity and rareness of these ordinary but conscientious people, we could not help but be left in awe of their great deeds. Besides, we are calling them heroes for a reason.
Auntie and I talked some more but before we know it, we were already in front of the Singapore Flyer.
Me: Auntie, we’re here. I’ll just drop you to where you are heading.
Auntie: No need, I am sure it is just somewhere here.
Me: Are you sure?
Auntie: Yes! Have you already taken your dinner?
Me: Not yet Auntie.
Auntie: You better buy dinner first. I heard the parade will take more or less two hours.
Me: Oh, is that so? I’ll be going then Auntie, I’ll just grab something here. (Pointing at the 711 store nearby)
Auntie: Okay okay. Nice talking with you! You take care.
Me: Thank you Auntie. You too, get well soon.
Auntie: Thank you. Enjoy the rest of your stay and enjoy the parade! =)
And we parted ways.
I bought two mini siopao and a drink, rapidly stuck the siopaos in my mouth to just have something to fill my seemingly empty stomach and after consuming all of those, I was good to go!
Papadam
My dad’s landlady asked his son to cook some Papadam for me. She might have thought that I like it since I was showing her the other day a picture of a dish which she later then claimed is one.
I am not sure now if what we had eaten the other day is actually Papadam. Haha. Anyway, it’s fun cooking it. You have to turn the wrap over again and again over the fire until you achieve the look and the crispiness that you like.
It was just a little too spicy for my taste. Nonetheless, I just have to buy the non-spicy one then. Thank you so much for cooking it for me! Really appreciate it. =)
February 20, 2010
A Trip to Lagnaa
Lagnaa Barefoot Dining
No. 6, Upper Dickson Road
Singapore 207466
Phone: (65) 6296 1215
Fax: (65) 6294 0568
Email: lagnaa@yahoo.com.sg
Opens from 11:30 am till 10:30 pm
Visit their website for more information www.lagnaa.com